wowzer.. me and ev live so close to las cruces..... but i am so sorry to hear about that hopeful... he well me and evey meet on the net.. we started going out and then we lost contact for a while and then i called him again and then we were friends until we meet for the first time at the mall 4 years after knowing eachother on the phone and net....then after that we went out again... and we have been going out ever since...