talking or listening

[Capricorn]

Welcome to the forum LinzAy and thank you for sharing! Don't worry about being too quiet, I used to be that way when I was younger, used to drive my mother mad but as one other quiet person said "no point in speaking til you have something to say" I think when you don't say too much, then what you do say is far more precious than those who prattle on constantly!

I talk more now but perhaps I have more experiences to share than when I was younger.....and a bit more confidence.

You're fine as youare!

[Trinity]

I'd have to say I am a happy medium of the two - when a friend needs an ear and someone to vent on I can be an incredible listener. Not to mention, you pick up on things you normally wouldn't if you open your ears and close your mouth
And yet, when I am first meeting someone, or if they are not in a chatty mood I can have entire conversations with myself almost, and at the end we both feel as though it went well.
You know sometimes a certain conversation sticks in your mind, a really in depth talk about something you are both interested in? Those conversations, the ones you never forget, are usually like that for the simple fact that you both listened and talked an equivalent amount. It was balanced. There was equilibrium.
I think I am talking too much.....

[Luc]

im hmmm me just me im more like sax just a plain creepy listener.. the one hiding in the shadows stalking you listening to your every thought.. hehe i wish.. though yeah i am more of a listener.. BUT theres that but there hehe.. get me drunk enough or drunk on caffine and i'll do the talking ^.^ but if not im more of the listener i like to watch observe (My victums muahahaha er yeah <.< >.>) like someone said ... (to lazy to scroll up to see who said it) that like if i say i like country music..(which i dont blah NO Offence) then that person im talking to might say they like it too even though they hate it just say it to um how it go again.. to .... get you to like 'em er yeah something like that. hehe oh well.. hmm i ran out of coffe again..no! i got school tomarrow too -.- hmm night quill yay !

and yup sax know how ya feel.. i cant stay in padded rooms for so long.. erm i mean closed rooms yeah thats it.. heh i guess im a bit crastrophobic or how ever you spell that.. 0.o mmhmm think i said that already no ok.. yeah..

[Sax]

Padded rooms are FUN

[Luc]

espeically with those i love me jackets they warm ^.^

[Sax]

Yes, yes they are!

I LOVE ME!

[bingholic98]

don't you find if someone talks to much it tires you out.Ssometimes when someone goes on and on I find myself yawning, I know that's rude but can't help if I get bored

[Seizure]

[REMOVED]

[Stacey]

Ok.. question...

Is it just me, or has anyone else ever had the urge to yawn just by seeing someone else yawn or hearing someone talk about yawning?
What causes that anyhow?????

~Stace

[LinzAy]

Lol....i hafta yawn if i just hear somebody yawn over the phone....so i know how that feels..........

Cap, i read your reply to me buti forgot most of it...because, well, i guess my memory isnt all that great! But i remember wanting to say thankyou..o yea! I guess i'll agere that im fine the way i am.......well, no...there are those things that could definitely be changed about me.......

Speakig of which..imma start a new thread.....